It Takes A Village

Nine to Noon's Kathryn Ryan interviews parenting experts to help you navigate the trends, trials & tough calls of modern family life.

Presented by Kathryn Ryan

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Bullying: preventing and addressing

Whether your child is being bullied, or your child is being a bully, Dr Karyn Healy has advice. She is an Australian registered psychologist who has worked with schools, parents and children to prevent and address bullying, and resolve conflict. She co-authored a family programme to address school bullying called the Resilience Triple P program. Dr Healy says parents can help children manage conflict.
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Play with your food, and don't disguise vegetables

When Jennifer Anderson became a mother, she - like many new parents - realised the uphill battle that can be mealtimes. Getting young kids to eat their greens, voluntarily, isn't always straightforward - and advice on how to encourage them is polarising. Do you force them to sit and finish their plate, bribe them with dessert... and at what point, do you just give up on the brussel sprouts? But Ms Anderson, a registered dietician, took that angst, and honed in on a specialty in feeding children and picky eating. She founded Kids Eat in Color - a resource to help families feed their children, from their first bite of solid food right through to elementary-aged nutrition needs.
Close up family eating at dining table. (Photo by Paul Bradbury/Caia image/SCIENCE / NEW / Science Photo Library via AFP)

With so many education apps - how can parents know which ones are good?

The phrase "there's an app for that" certainly applies in the education space - one estimate puts numbers available on the Apple and Google Play stores at nearly 400,000. But are they any good?
A child using an app for study.

Do sticker charts help or harm?

The big question for many parents of young children is - how can I get my kids to do what I'm asking them to do?
Close Up Of Child With Reward Chart

Parenting: the impact of traditional masculinity on boys

New York Times contributor Andrew Reiner writes about traditional roles previously assigned to men and boys affects their lives.
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Maggie Dent: Queen of Commonsense Parenting

Maggie Dent is known as the Queen of Commonsense Parenting. She's a former high school teacher, counsellor, mother of four sons, grandmother of seven, author of numerous books and the host of the ABC podcast Parental as Anything. Her latest book is called Help Me, Help My Teen. And Maggie's coming to Auckland next month for two public sessions: Mothering our Boys and Calming Today's Anxious Kids. Send questions for Maggie to 2101 on text or email ninetonoon@rnz.co.nz

I'm a helpful dad, so why do the kids only want mum?

Parenting commentator Nathan Wallis joins Paddy Gower to talk about what to do when child only wants the other parent.
Father with sad child

Lucy Foulkes: Why teens behave the way they do

Dr Lucy Foulkes is an academic psychologist at the University of Oxford, and her new book draws on decades of research to reveal why teens behave they way they do.
Dr Lucy Foulkes, author of Coming of Age

Parenting: How to talk to your children about setbacks

A University of Auckland led study has investigated how parents discuss setbacks with their children - and the correlation with a child's fear of making mistakes.
Children at Arakura School in Lower Hutt line up for free lunch, on 18 March, 2024.

How not to lose your cool with your kids

Tips and tricks for keeping your cool with your children.
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Helping teens make peace with anxiety

Clinical and health psychologist Dr Toni Lindsay says anxiety is a bit like chocolate: a little bit is ok, but too much can make you spin out.
Dr Toni Lindsay, author of a new book on anxiety for young people

Parenting: when preschoolers struggle with speaking skills

Wellington speech and language therapist Christian Wright discusses the different spoken language stages preschoolers go through as they learn to talk.
Cheerful child on the street portrait. Selective focus. Kid.

Parenting: How to carry the mental load

Psychologist Jacqui Maguire discusses tips and advice for parents struggling to carry the mental load of parenting, family life and work.
Tired young mother working oh her laptop and holding 6-month daughter

Is my kid old enough to watch this show?

How young is too young to watch Stranger Things (M with a content warning)? What do you tell a 16-year-old who wants to watch Euphoria (R18 so actually illegal for those 17 and under)? To make informed decisions about safe family viewing, parents should take into account not only ratings and content warnings but also their child's individual sensitivities, says Kate Whitaker from New Zealand's Classification Office.
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Parenting: navigating kids and devices

When Rob and Zareen Cope's four children began wanting phones and screens, the pair decided to dive into the research. They travelled overseas talking with experts and made a documentary. Today, the Cope's company - Our Kids Online - educates parents about the dangers of handheld devices and the internet-age, and how best to mitigate them. They spoke to around 500 parents in Wellington last night.
Boy in his bed using smartphone to make a video call. (Photo by CONCEPTUAL IMAGES/SCIENCE PHOTO / PHR / Science Photo Library via AFP)