BANG!

Real people. Real lives. Real sex. Melody Thomas leads a frank, often enlightening, always entertaining exploration of sex, sexuality and relationships.

Discusses sexual themes.

Presented and produced by Melody Thomas

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Like A Virgin

Season 2 / Episode 1
Using real stories told by real people, Melody Thomas leads a frank (but often entertaining) exploration of sex, sexuality and relationships. In the first episode of season 2, people talk about their "sexual awakenings" and first times, and we explore the idea of virginity as a social construct.
Illustration by Pinky Fang

BANG! x On The Rag

Bonus episode
Melody Thomas is joined by Alex Casey, Leonie Hayden and Michele A'Court from The Spinoff's On The Rag podcast for a boisterous chat about their "sexual awakenings".
Contains strong language
Leonie Hayden, Melody Thomas, Alex Casey and Michele A'Court

Any Date With Me's a Blind Date

Season 2 / Episode 2
In this episode, three people in their 30s and 40s talk about dating.
Illustration shows two images overlaying each other - the first is of two hands reaching to connect, the background image shows a couple together in bed but both on their phones. Image by Pinky Fang

All The Kids Are Going Bi

Season 2 / Episode 3
In this episode, Melody speaks with a couple of people in heterosexual relationships whose attractions are nevertheless far from straightforward.
Illustration by Pinky Fang

Man O' Man

Season 2 / Episode 4
'Toxic masculinity' is a phrase that gets thrown around a lot these days but a lot of guys seem not to like it... Maybe it's the 'toxic' part? In this episode of BANG! Melody Thomas takes a trip to a Coromandel pub to hear about 'Man Cards', gets some great metaphors from comedian and teen mentor James Nokise and trades weather burns and communication tips with psychologist Zac Seidler.
Explicit language, discussion of rape and suicide
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MeToo, masculinity and domestic violence

Bonus episode
A previous episode of BANG! left a few loose ends so Melody Thomas pulls together a panel for a discussion of tricky topics.
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FAQs

Season 2 / Episode 5
How do lesbians have sex? What's it like to be asexual? Or polyamorous? And how can a disability affect your sex life? Melody Thomas seeks answers from the people who know best.
Illustration by Pinky Fang

Takātapui

Season 2 / Episode 6
Scholars and activists Ngahuia Te Awekotuku and Elizabeth Kerekere speak with Melody Thomas about what sex, sexuality and gender looked like in Te Ao Maori prior to colonisation, plus Rosanna Raymond shares a Pacific perspective, and we meet non-binary Auckland teenager Kahi.
BANG! Season 2 Episode 6: Takatāpui

Speaking Out

Season 2 / Episode 7
We hear three stories from people who have worked through shame or embarrassment towards "really wonderful sunshine" on the other side.
Discussions of sexual abuse
Illustration by Pinky Fang

The LIVE Show

Season 2 / Episode 8
In this very special episode of BANG! recorded in front of a live audience at The Basement Theatre, Melody Thomas and guests dispense advice, tell personal stories, recite erotic poems and have a few laughs along the way.
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